here is a summary of the best advices listed by everybody in this thread....
1. Follow the threads of joy in your life. If it ain't fun, don't do it.
2. Think long and hard before you become a parent.
3. laugh every day.
4. Sometimes good enough really is good enough. Perfectionism is based in anxiety and fear.
5. Also related to child-raising, maintain your independent identity even though you're a mom.
diet and exercise can change your life.
7. There are women who are worthwhile out there; - don't let women smother you
8. There are friends out there who are worth having;
9. Never let the dollar rule you.
10. If you keep your mind positive, family will mostly take care of itself.
12. Don't forget about your brother. He's got his own thing going.
13. Fear is one of the best guides you will ever get to have by your side.
Pooverty is a motivator. Don't feel bad about it.
Alex
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