It has been explained to me a little differently. When we die we go to a place called the "desire plane/s". We go there to "work" out those things in life we were attached to. Regrets, desires, people, events left unforgiven. etc. Eventually you finally become aware that you are in a sense "dreaming". Some people stay longer than others. And yes, for instance say that you took your own life. Most likely what you experience will be "hell". I cannot remember the movie, but it had Robin Williams in it and his wife committed suicide. He went to his "wife's hell" to retrieve her but could not. She had to come to terms with the decisions she had made on earth. My husband took his own life and had it rough going "on the other side" for a little while. It is really coming to an acceptance of the decisions that we made in life. Then once out of the desire plane you move on to the "Temple of Light" You get some healing of course! Kind of back to school again. More life review what different decisions could have been made again. Then when you are ready you meet with your Soul Council and make your plan and off you are again. I have been told that Lucid Dreaming is a very good practice to assist you with quick/er passage through the "Desire" planes. Practicing forgiveness and acceptance in daily living will assist also. Love and Light
