Hello learningtogrow…
I think that what is needed here is a little clarity… you mix a few different subject together and try to get an overall solution… no wonder you are confused…
The two main components of your question are: 1) about taking a decision and 2) the definition of feeling good…
First, you find it hard to take a decision… that’s natural. It is always difficult to step out of the comfort zone and to step in the unknown… on the other hand… if you remain in the comfort zone… there will always be that gnawing feeling of “What if I had done it…???”
What I would suggest in your case is finding a way of making a gradual transition from the position that you are now into the one you aspire… That way… if you do not find satisfaction in what you are entering in… you can always go back…
Second… the definition of “Feeling good.” It is a state where you a quite content to live in the moment without desire for anything else but are satisfied with what you have (and feel) and also where there is no disturbing fear for the future…
Hope this helps…
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