Originally Posted by Brien
Ack. I disagree with the both of you. Yes, yes, it is normal for young men to be very sexually driven, to have high libido, etc. But "22 year old hotblooded males" are human too. Sometimes men get stressed out, tired, bored, disinterested, sore, or whatever.
There definitely is a societal expectation for men to become f**k machines at a moment's notice. When talking to him about this, don't act as if there is something wrong with him because he doesn't meet that expectation.
Men sometimes end up focusing a lot on their work, or something else they're really passionate about and disregard women in their life for an "extended" period of time.
I know I've done it.
Then again, this might not apply to his/her situation, as he might just not be THAT interested in you and is looking for a bit of a refreshment... a variety... a change.
Men need that.
And I am a firm believer that nothing can bring him back to you as good as another girl he'll "get together with" for a bit of wild loving...
Men need this change of "partner" from time to time, just to refresh, recharge... and don't even bother calling it cheating, as it's stronger than him, that desire he cannot control that easily (if at all)...