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smartsuccess · 05-12-2007, 04:29 PM

Hello,

It is okay to daydream like that like some of the ealier posters have said but the danger is when you become so engrossed in such thoughts, especially at the begining of the relationship, to the extent that you make the person an extension of you and she later fumbled, this could be distrarous and affect you adversely. The best you could do is to live out the moment with the person and have it at the back of your mind always that people are unpredictable especially when it comes to the issues of the "heart". By so doing, you will be saving yourself a lot of pains and heartbroken which could determine the success or otherwise of your subsequent relationship, if the unexpected should happen.

05-12-2007, 04:29 PM	#9 (permalink)
smartsuccess Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 4	Hello, It is okay to daydream like that like some of the ealier posters have said but the danger is when you become so engrossed in such thoughts, especially at the begining of the relationship, to the extent that you make the person an extension of you and she later fumbled, this could be distrarous and affect you adversely. The best you could do is to live out the moment with the person and have it at the back of your mind always that people are unpredictable especially when it comes to the issues of the "heart". By so doing, you will be saving yourself a lot of pains and heartbroken which could determine the success or otherwise of your subsequent relationship, if the unexpected should happen. Last edited by smartsuccess; 05-12-2007 at 04:31 PM.