Hello and welcome to this board Omkazn… Hope you like it here and that you receive the answers that you seek…
Dr Maxwell Maltz tells us, “The ''self-image'' is the key to human personality and human behavior. Change the self image and you change the personality and the behavior.”
All your life, you have seen yourself as an under-achiever… that is your self-image… that’s how you perceive yourself to be… and that’s how you will perform…
What has happened to you in the second semester is normal… you were not performing according to the self-image… so, you sabotaged yourself and reverted what you believe yourself to be, an under-achiever…
So, what you need to do, if you want to perform at your peak level is to change that self-image… and, here is how you start doing that…
1. Come to the realization that your present self-image is not accurate… it is something that was suggested to you by your parents… and you accepted that suggestion…
2. You now know that you can perform as a top achiever… so that is your true self-image…
3. Write down your identity (self-image) the way it truly is… something like this…
“I am an intelligent person. I am a top performer. I have within me what is needed to win. I have found my true self… and that is how I will perform from now on…”
4. Keep that written statement with you at all times… and read it at least three times a day…
Best of luck to you… you are a top achiever… and don’t ever forget it…
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