I can't believe that the PUAs haven't leapt all over this thread by now!
Short version: It's natural to develop 'oneitis' when you don't have a lot of romantic experience. The cure is to have a lot of romantic experience.  Then you'll realise that a given girl may be unique, and that there are a lot of other unique girls out there.
Or so I'm led to understand - I confess to being an AFC myself...
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When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created.
When people see things as good, evil is created.
When the way is forgotten, 'morality' and 'piety' need to be taught.
-Dao De Jing, Chapter 2
Last edited by Keith : 05-12-2007 at 11:07 AM.
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