Realize DEEPLY that the NOW moment is all you have. All fantasies of marrying her complete with the minivan and 3 kids is all an illusion in your head. Make living in the now your most prominent consciousness. Your brain is a tool... but it can become very inefficient when your tool starts using you (getting bogged down with movies in your head, thoughts - anything that isn't being completely present) This takes A LOT of work to master, but IMO, it is the best thing you can do for yourself besides completely accepting yourself for who you are.
Get "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle.
Namaste,
Dusty
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