[Hulbert Lee]

Originally Posted by anusha

i have barbaric parents who have been driving me crazy from when i was a kid!
they have a problem with everything i do, and when they yell at me and when i try to explain, they say we are your well wishers, we would never do anything to hurt you ..blah blah..they yell at me for every god damn thing!
namely- my dogs barking, or if i'm not at home when my dad comes( he needs everything, from tea to be given to him in his hand), if they had a bad day at work.. and the worst of all, if i try to justify.. they start their comparisons with my sister, cousins, friend's children..
and because of this i'm pretty messed up in my head and i keep throwing out anger randomly cause i cant keep it in anymore.
and thats horrible cause people now think im a short tempered always irritated kinda person which i'm not.
they have a problem if i talk to people outside my house, cause in India , it is always about 'what the society thinks'
i'm starting to hate them, and it is not my fault!

I feel the same way too. My parents are often times arguing over money and it's very annoying. Mom my nags a lot and my dad, when he gets angry, explodes and yells. It's embarrassing because I have to close the window or the neighbors will think our family is going through verbal abuse. We've already got a note before in the past and my dad just laughed it off. I understand what it feels like when you say that your parents are crazy mean beings because often times, I think my parents are crazy too. But inside, they probably love you more than anything.