Wonderful post Erin.
I have a doubt, before incarnate we decide our marriage partner, kids etc. If my dad decides before his incarnation who are going to be his kids then what is the impact of my decision before my incarnation. Same way if I decide who is going to be my marriage partner then how it impacts my wifeís decision before incarnation?
How is the synchronization happens?
Also one more doubt, if you see general human life we born, get educated, get a job (or do a business), get married, have kids, earn money for the family needs and when the time comes die. This is the routine in most of the cases. So what is the very important thing we could learn from human incarnation that we canít learn when in the ether?