What first came to mind is your looking to attract a partner in your life and because you don't really want a woman there is no negative beliefs around your ability to attract a woman (no beliefs at all, would still be an absence of negative beliefs preventing it from happening).
You have a big desire for a man, In which I am assuming you have some beliefs around that. Even if its, "where is my man at?" "Why haven't I found a man?" "Where are all the good men?" etc.. I am sure your beliefs are different, those were just examples.
But the truth is if you thought you could manifest your dream man without any doubt in your mind, he would be here already. Because you don't have such a desire for a woman you also don't have anything that would have created doubt.
So just look at this as the universe has heard your intention. Now your only work is to trust its moving mountains to bring you your dream man. And enjoy the wonderful attention from women in the meantime. After all it means your are so attractive that when that man does come along you are going to be attractive to him as well!
It's the whole idea of when your not looking for a relationship is when it drops in your lap. And when we are looking we keep looking. Just know he is already here and enjoy life as it is now. He will be here in NO time at all.