Originally Posted by pc99
Perhaps the universe knows best - you’re straight! So ask those women out.
I kid of course – but, you did mention neither sex bothered with you before; therefore you’re making progress so you should be happy about that.
Sounds like the focus may be off somewhat. Why do you want a man? Is it for a long term relationship? Do you want just anonymous sex? Do you want just to date? Are you wanting him for a “plus 1” at events? Are you looking for a friend with benefits? Just asking for a new man sounds pretty generic.
As I said, it sounds like you’re making progress if the fairer sex is paying attention – so it shouldn’t be long before your focus audience does. But, it would be a shame if you’re looking for a relationship and you meet a man who only wants a one night stand – or vice versa. So ask again and be more specific this time.
I want a long term relationship and that is what I've been focusing my energy on, yeah.
Wouldn't mind a few dates in the meantime though, may need a few of them to find the long term.