Originally Posted by Angela
Recognize that whatever it is you're experiencing attachment for is only a signpost for your heart's desire, not your actual heart's desire.
Look for the heart's desire, generate it, and then the signpost is just icing on the cake.
^This. Which is to say - realize what you are really after is a feeling. Then feel that feeling.
Detachment isn't really necessary though...it just helps most because when you're detached you don't care that you don't have it, so aren't focused on that. If you can convince yourself that you DO have it though...then you can be perfectly attached and manifest.
One other very good way is to keep wanting it really, really badly. And have the intensity increase - and do this for a very, very long time (say, years and years)...and then one day you will be so fed up you will say STUFF IT! Then it'll come...and it'll come so fast and in such a miraculous way you'll jump for joy.