What Rubens said might work. For example, I got the car that I wanted when I started to focus on getting a scooter. If I got the scooter, I wouldn't need a car (at least that was what I tought back then
). But instead of a scooter, I got a car that I was asking for before. So my advice would be to start focusing on something, that would substitute that what you would like and the former may manifest more quickly.