Futureshock, I had the same problem you have but I'm a gay woman and I kept attracting unwanted male attention. So several years ago, I decided to do a vision board and cut out different parts of women that I found attractive. I also imagined for some reason that her name would start with a V. Several months later, I met the type of woman I was looking for and her name was Valerie
We're not together anymore but we had a wonderful relationship.