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Originally Posted by FutureShock83  Ah, that would make sense! Yeah, I am quite masculine (most people don't know I'm gay until I tell them) but the thing is, this is who I really am and by changing my demeanor to someone more camp and feminine I wouldn't be being true to myself at all.  |
It's subtle and tricky. It doesn't mean to do things you wouldn't ordinarily do. It means to stop doing things that are unconsciously attracting women. When I took honest stock of how I was acting in public, I realized that I knew a lot of gay guys, and that I was appropriating a lot of their mannerisms, drawing other gay guys to me. Once I identified those unconscious mannerisms, I replaced them with conscious elements designed to grab the attention of women.