Originally Posted by elucidate
"It frustrates the hell out of me when I write something that I feel is clear, and people then misunderstand it, which means I have to take more time to repeat myself so they can, and still they misunderstand, and then the more I repeat myself, the more it seems like I'm "obsessed" with what I am repeating by others, which is yet another misunderstanding...so I have to repeat myself again. That is frustrating for me and I just wanted to express it"
Elucidate, you seem to believe that repeating yourself is the way to have people people hear you the way you want to be heard.
You may want to consider trying something else, if you want to get different results.