Originally Posted by Diandra25
Bashar talked about it--- it is the worst thin you can do...expect something appear in your reality before you shift yourself 1st.
1st you change your beliefs,and you keep continuing it. the fact that you dont expect it to change your reality all in a moment,it is when you re showing the FAITH IT IT.in you and in your capabilities of your manifestation skills.
you will see that in a particular situation,that will appear,exaclty like in your !past,if you really had shifted,you will see the difference,when you re-act differently to that situation.
ONLY THEN! the reality will shift too....
awesome advice Diandra! You've really encapsulated how it works. If the absence of our desire has the ability to cause us pain or upset or any negative response whatsoever, we have not yet shifted our vibration to the place it needs to be to attract our desire into our reality.
Our vibration is a match to our desire when we begin to feel happy and excited because we absolutely KNOW that our desire is on its way!
It's kind of a catch 22 because initially, in order to identify something as being a 'desire,' we must first feel the absence of it in our reality.....but you are so right....we MUST shift from that place of identifying the desire and move to a place of positively 'expecting' it before we are a match to its manifestation.