Injoy,
I had read those before you had even responded to me first. Those links talk about making your own ego happy. They dont work at all level. Whatever gives you happiness today might give you sorrow tomorrow. What would you do then?? The concep of magic pill is nothing but "Count your blessings".
What I am talking about is
unconditional love which stays the same no matter what. I dont recall the books/articles but you might find it in the power of intentions. Oh well....I think I will keep doing some soul searching
Thanks for your response.