| | This is the core of my philosophy
This is how you really can get anything you want. Ask for it. Ask and you shall receive. Ask and it is given. Really, anything. Asking doesn't cost a thing. Ask, and keep asking until you get what you want. Anything you want.
Don't ask, don't get. Ask, and you get. Simple as that.
Now, the real issue is all the mental disconnects that occur between wanting something, and getting yourself to ask for it. i.e. worthiness issues, permission issues, fear, conditioned responses, negativity, defeatism, etc. etc. etc. If you can erase all that, and just start asking, you are there.