thank you all for the rather informative answers...i especially like the one about having thousands of potential soul mates out there...in hindsight i guess my lesson is as my good friend pointed out..."don't fish off the company warf!"...i used to work in another industry and had a rather physical, unpleasant intimate relationship with...it ended in disaster and i moved to another line of work altogether...so i'm not planning on dating co-workers anymore thank you very much.
it's somewhat weird though since i never pursued my ex-girlfriend...it seemed to just happen and whenever i avoided her, the universe just seemed to bring us together everytime until finally we started dating...she had come from overseas and now living here for the next four years on a work visa, so i guess she was caught up in the whole romance of being in a new place...we dated just shy of a year...i guess i probably have some feelings for her still...she makes some silly choices sometime...i do send her my love through my thoughts and wish her well always...i love where i am in my life as a result of being with her too...i was her first love incidentally
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