When she tries to get attention just ignore her, if something annoys you just ignore it.
For example if neighbors in other house are too loud i just put the headphones on and put some smooth music at almost all the volume and i get into my movie... i detach from current reality and concentrate on my reality.
BTW if she still attracts you subconsciously you should know that there are ton's of women like her, even better..
You should know also that we are all interchangable, there is not one "soul-mate", there are cca. 3-6 thousand potential "soul mates" on this world that match you almost perfectly!!!
