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tfahkry · 05-06-2007, 12:24 PM

One of the most frustrating things that i face in my current life is understanding what lesson i am supposed to learn from something occuring. I ask myself questions constantly in the hope that my subconscious mind will draw an answer, to no avail and often i repeat the same mistake. What's that saying: "life's a great teacher, since it brings you the experience before the lesson"

Current example. Ex girlfriend and i have been broken up for over several months now and occassionally have cause to work together through the week. Since she broke up with me, i find it difficult to conduct myself at work in her presence as i feel that she is always there. Whenever i am out, i run into her. When i have to do a course for work, she's always booked in the same course by coincidence more than anything. I'd like to feel that i am moving on, but find that there is a constant reminder of her in my life.

I don't seem to be able to see the lesson. I want to, so i can take action and move on. I don't hate her, but i do try and avoid her especially when she's at the same party (we both have mutual friends). I feel i have a low vibration around her, for she still attempts to make me jealous and draw attention to herself.

Any helpful suggestions?

05-06-2007, 12:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
tfahkry Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 15	What are the lessons to be learned? One of the most frustrating things that i face in my current life is understanding what lesson i am supposed to learn from something occuring. I ask myself questions constantly in the hope that my subconscious mind will draw an answer, to no avail and often i repeat the same mistake. What's that saying: "life's a great teacher, since it brings you the experience before the lesson" Current example. Ex girlfriend and i have been broken up for over several months now and occassionally have cause to work together through the week. Since she broke up with me, i find it difficult to conduct myself at work in her presence as i feel that she is always there. Whenever i am out, i run into her. When i have to do a course for work, she's always booked in the same course by coincidence more than anything. I'd like to feel that i am moving on, but find that there is a constant reminder of her in my life. I don't seem to be able to see the lesson. I want to, so i can take action and move on. I don't hate her, but i do try and avoid her especially when she's at the same party (we both have mutual friends). I feel i have a low vibration around her, for she still attempts to make me jealous and draw attention to herself. Any helpful suggestions?