Originally Posted by Illustro Cado
Being a darkworker means honoring yourself. If acting polite and loving is the sincerest expression of who you are you couldn't be a good darkworker by doing otherwise.
I can see the logic in that, because I've never once felt good after being unkind to another person, even if they "deserve it" (which is itself a tricky phrase for me...I don't like it at all). It brings me no pleasure.
So by being polite and sensitive and kind, which is what I seem to be wired for, I am
serving myself because I'm doing that which makes me feel good.
Of course, it also would make others feel pretty good to be treated with kindness, sensitivity and good manners. Which brings us back to what someone else said about these labels essentially being artificial constructs in the first place.
Either way, perhaps a 31-day trial is in order. 31 because 30-day trials are getting too trendy these days. 29 would be good, too. 2 + 9, you know...