[Wulfen]

Hey Radical, we're on an off in every thread hehe

I like to discuss with you because you have a different viewpoint from me, without being closed minded. I think it's a good way to discuss and so I hope you don't mind if I reply to you everywhere

Originally Posted by Radical

Jesus, girls ain't worth the trouble.

Yes they are! They are pretty, outgoing, fun, sweet, caring... I like them a lot! I like to have many girls in my life and I want to make them feel good and give them lots of good experiences, sex being an important part of them, that's why I study and practice my seduction skills whenever possible.

I don't like all this generalizing, even if girls and boys think differently.

Generalizing is a valid form of knowledge, as long as you are aware that exceptions might arise from time to time. But you need to know the general case before managing the exceptions.

For instance exceptions in girl's personality are gold diggers, or girls that don't want you for the emotions but for material goods. They are not many, compared to the total amount of girls, and they must be treated in a different way (for instance, by never paying for them, which is something that is gentlemanly to do every now and then for a "normal" girl).

But in order to manage the exceptions, one needs to get a good grasp of the general case. Or else we'd build systematics in top of loose concepts, and none of them would work.

I think most of the difference is due to social conditioning. We have to remember that we are all just human beings, looking for nice people to share our experience of the world with.

Ok, but how can you know what comes from evolution, and what from social conditioning? We know already that we are physiologically different, for instance men can focus more their vision in the long range, while women have better peripherical vision. Why can't we have different brains?

And overall, who cares if it's social or biological? I like that we all strive for a equalitarian society, and I'm all for that, but it's a different story from attracting women as of today. I want to attract women as they are now, not as they would be in a utopical totally sex-equalitarian society, that might be reality 200 years from now.

Here it's a good compendium of differences between men and women. Exceptions aside, I find this a very accurate generalization :

Men & Women: differences