[odietamo]

this probably has nothing to do with this situation, but it wasn't long ago i was that 22yo guy who had no interest in sexing up my girl-friend who was a borderline hottie. it had nothing to do with her looks. but i promise the girl smelled like sour milk and otherwise stank. this was her default smell, not a result of poor hygiene. there were other things going on, but that was a big factor.

just pointing out the obvious here, but there is more to sexual attraction that just looks. if the smell is so bad you lose interest, that has to be considered. :-P

another thing going on was i was working my butt off every day 7am-7pm including 2 hours in traffic. when i got home i just wanted to rest and be with her more than start "working" again.

but i still had above average interest in her. i was just more interested in having a partner who was there for me emotionally. this was the most important thing for me. not all men in their twenties want to fool around first-and-foremost.