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Originally Posted by InJoy  I have come to believe that feelings are my best barometer. If what I do at any given time (and its consequences) makes me feel good, I'm probably doing the right thing for me. If I feel badly about something I'm doing or experiencing, or by the consequences of those actions, I need to either change what I'm doing/experiencing, or change the way I think about it. |
I agree with that too. I often think it's like we are all trying to get to same place, but we are going about it in completely different ways sometimes. For example, some play a game to have fun, so they have fun the whole time whether they win or lose. And some people just play to win, so it might not be as pleasurable until the end, but in the end, we all get what we are after, just in different ways.
So I guess as long as you consider the options and don't feel obligated to go one way or the other for any reason other than your own happines, you will end up finding what is right for you - the real you.