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Originally Posted by Zukin  I've never had a girlfriend. ... no prior experience ... |
Trying to implant memories... hehe have fun with that.
But anyway. Make real memories... don't make stuff up.
Here are two pages that have brought me tons of confidence with dealing with women and also just life in general (after learning it for about 4 months):
You are new.
Read that page and then find the link about the newbie mission to learn how to get confidence.
And also a nice summary page on
how to start the process
Also, on the forums page of that first website, check out the "reports" category for some memories that other people had.
Have FUN! (for the next year)
One last thought. You know visualizing is the same thing as implanting a memory, except that memory is of the future instead of something that happened in the past. But since you have not actually been with a real woman then your visualizations/false memories are probably not going to be realistic so you have to ground them to reality by actually experiencing them if you want them to be useful. But they would be helpful at first because it would help to remove your fear of approach because fear happens when your conciousness is pointed at an invariant representation that does not have its sub invariant representations defined. what the hell does that mean?
read these 2:
Find the definition of fear here,
my method of getting over fear
you could also listen to steve's podcast about how to get over fear.