to the OP:
I definitely agree with you. My boyfriend has looked at pornography (like most guys) since he was a teenager, but he and I both agree that is it not something that is good for both of us, and he has been "clean" for almost 8 months now. From my own personal viewpoint, my lover should not be viewing other naked women and acting out on that arousal...I should only be the one doing that (and the same for him). Oh, but I guess that is too "old fashioned" nowadays!
I will never understand why people are ok with their loved ones looking at other naked women (or men)...but I guess I do not need to. I am satisfied that my boyfriend is very loyal to me, not just in a physical sense, but also in a mental one.
I am one lucky woman!
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