Seems like you are trying to get validation from other people which perhaps stems from an insecurity complex. Believe me, i know, because i am a classic at this same sort of behavior. I have to be "funny" or "outrageous"
(remember the old saying, the tears of a clown, when there's no one around?)
That says it all...
Wanting attention and being liked by others is normal to a degree, but if you are taking it to the extreme, making yourself and perhaps other people uncomforable, then yes, go talk to a therapist and maybe gain some insight
from a professional.
You also don't want to get "bad" attention, aka people rolling their eyes everytime you start to answer another question or offer advice.
The notion of not saying anything and listening to others talk is a good one, begin to build your self awareness and controlling your impulses will be a great exercise. Be interested in others and you may find out by only doing that, you will get them interested in you in return. Problem solved. LOL
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