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Originally Posted by mariusa  Erin or anyone,
In a reading you did for me back in Dec. you said that my husband was suppose to be a short term relationship. I took a big detour. It's OK, I think detour is done, and now I hope I'm back on the right path.
Question is that I did get two great kids out of this relationship, so where do they fit in in this? Did they chose to come after they saw me strolling along the wrong path? I know the whole time thing is beyond my understanding but is this all written like a program with if this happens then that will happen?
If things are predetermined, can additions/changes be made like that? Where they some cheese that was added later? |
Hi Mariusa,
At 27 I had three young kiddies. My son was a baby. I remember having a b'day party for one of my daughters and while doing the dishes, my sister-in-law asked (in jest) when I planned to have the next one. I went to reply with complete conviction, that my family was complete and suddenly felt something tugging at my hand. I looked down and saw a little girl smiling up at me. Out of my mouth came the words 'In ten years time I'll have a little girl.' I got such a shock, I burst into tears.
As the years went by I forgot about it and at 35 I was newly divorced and met a man who also had 3 kids the same age as mine. We formed a relationship and I never considered having any more because we had our hands full with six already. My youngest daughter obviously had different ideas and arrived quite accidently a couple of years later. My sister-in-law reminded me of what I'd said ten yrs before, when she came to visit the new baby.
The relationship fell over four years later. Everything we tried to achieve together turned to custard but knowing that Sophie was meant to be, to spite the trials, has bought me a lot of comfort.
Lallymac