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openeyes · 05-01-2007, 04:00 AM

I'm a 22 year old bi guy. For the past couple years I've only dated women, as I decided there was a strong possibility I wanted a family. Around age 19-20 I dated several guys, and experimented with some when i was younger as well. I'm still very affectionate with my male friends, but building emotional/spiritual connections has been my emphasis. One book that was eye opening for me was Spirit and the Flesh: Sexual Diversity in American Indian Culture by anthropologist Walter L. Williams, which details how so many cultures used to have bisexuality as the norm, and homosexuality was held in high esteem. Another helpful book is The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex, written by a gay doctor on enjoying yourself while staying fairly safe. Best of luck in your awakening.

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openeyes Family Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,629	I'm a 22 year old bi guy. For the past couple years I've only dated women, as I decided there was a strong possibility I wanted a family. Around age 19-20 I dated several guys, and experimented with some when i was younger as well. I'm still very affectionate with my male friends, but building emotional/spiritual connections has been my emphasis. One book that was eye opening for me was Spirit and the Flesh: Sexual Diversity in American Indian Culture by anthropologist Walter L. Williams, which details how so many cultures used to have bisexuality as the norm, and homosexuality was held in high esteem. Another helpful book is The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex, written by a gay doctor on enjoying yourself while staying fairly safe. Best of luck in your awakening.