I guess the thing that has been bothering me the most is our sex life.. we haven't really touched each other in weeks. |
He is a 22 year old hot blooded (or used to be) male.. his sex drive should be off the charts at this point in his life. I know I definitely feel..deprived.
Originally Posted by Shamou
At 22, a guy usually don't need anything but a pretty girl to be turned on... maybe he should get checked for testosterone level... and, if that is OK... you are left with two choices... a sexless life... or a new boyfriend...
Sorry to be so blunt... but, that's how I see it...
Ack. I disagree with the both of you. Yes, yes, it is normal for young men to be very sexually driven, to have high libido, etc. But "22 year old hotblooded males" are human too. Sometimes men get stressed out, tired, bored, disinterested, sore, or whatever.
There definitely is a societal expectation for men to become f**k machines at a moment's notice. When talking to him about this, don't act as if there is something wrong with him because he doesn't meet that expectation.