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Old 04-29-2007, 02:53 AM   #7 (permalink)
Robert Avila
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Thinktank....

You have some awesome recommendations to help you overcome your shyness.....I especially like the suggestion on exercise.

That is a great place to start!

You will notice that when you workout...you will be in such a better mood throughout the day....

You find yourself more "in the mood" to talk with others.

This is something I personally have noticed....

When my energy reserves are low...I notice that I talk with very few people.

After working out in the morning....it's an entirely different day. There are so many more people I meet...which I start the conversation.

Being a thinker...we tend to "think" everything out....our every move...what will others think of us etc......so my suggestion is....don't think. Strike up a conversation and don't worry about the outcome...

When you just "get started" and dive right in....you won't have time for negative thoughts to creep in.

As mentioned earlier....when you take the focus off yourself....and focus your interest on the other person...it take makes things easier too!
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