When you're in a sexual relationship, being there for them sexually is a part of taking care of them, just like listening to how their day went or doing things to make them laugh and smile. To not be in the mood on a given night is acceptable, but to neglect someone for so long is to be not very considerate (and not a good partner).
I'm not saying break up with him, but do at least wake him up to the fact that he is not being a good partner, and the excuses aren't cutting it.
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