I have no idea how to revive it..and please dont tell me to look into orgies or S&M. =/
I find it always interesting that when someone says "don't tell me to XXX to get happy", something follows that nobody in this forum would probably advice.
People come here and ask: How can I be an self employed and write "don't tell me to get a real job". If you read this board on a regular basis you see that nobody here would that, people here go tend to go into the other extreme of "as long as follow your passion you will be fine".
When someone writes "don't tell me to XXX to get happy", it kind of expressing the limiting belief "I know that I would need to XXX, but I don't want to, so please don't remind me of it".
You should ask yourself why you harbor such a belief.