Originally Posted by bettyboo11
...He used to adore me to the point where I would get annoyed, but now that he's calmed down I don't feel as loved.
I've tried talking to him about it, but he says the more I bring it up, the more I make a big deal about it..thus perpetuating the problem. He says he's just tired and busy lately..but he's always been busy, never too busy for me. He is a 22 year old hot blooded (or used to be) male.. his sex drive should be off the charts at this point in his life. I know I definitely feel..deprived.
I love him so much
I don't want to lose him but I find myself increasing frustrated and wanting that passion back that we used to have.
So when he loved you too much, you would get annoyed. Now you love him too much, and what do you expect him to do?
I think that's just the cat and mouse game humans play. You can't control it? Your emotions seem to be out of your reach when it comes to this?
I don't know that I have any usefull advice, but I'd like to offer my condolences for your situation.