I must be out of luck; I teach girls to code.
Though I'm still working on the DnD thing. And yes, most of them are in fact good-looking.
There was also that guy who proposed to his girlfriend using a dedicated website and a pretty elaborate setup around town. My main reaction was, "So, how sure was he that she'd say yes?" It was cute.
An interesting correlation about geeks and nerds is that they tend to be more thoughtful about their spirituality. I've noticed this with vague interest, and haven't really looked into it. But every one of my friends who is semi-decent at code has had worthwhile discussion points on matters spiritual, whether it's pseudo-Zen, something even more esoteric, or straight-laced Christianity.