There is some confusion here on giving and the darkworker path...
Again, Steve hit the nail on the head when he mentioned darkworking as being primarily motivated by self-love, and lightworking as primarily being motivated by other-love.
Please note, that says *primarily*.
A darkworker can give (yes, as Steve puts its, for good PR). But they can also give just to get off on being such a caring person. The other person's gratitude is great for your self-esteem. Lightworkers don't like talking about this, but...
I did habitat for humanity last week (I put some gravel in the driveway). But, the team built a house for a former drug addict, which, sorry, I sense the dark and "former" part is a total lie, BUT...
No one there knew me. I will get no PR. I did it because now I can call the universe out on owing me one, and, I feel like such a magnanimous...man...
See, you lightworkers, by definition, HAVE to do some amount of giving.
I just up and chose to do it...
Aren't I so amazing?!?!
Man, I love me....
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