I hope you can just say hi to her soon! That will be a rush, ha?
You have lots of interesting advice here, and I just wonder if you can just go with what you already are. You won't blow it with her when you come as you are, as authentic.
Trying to do the right thing may actually cause you to come across as contrived. I think being who you are now is most genuine and probably more attractive than trying to muster up confidence.
After reading this thread I thought, oh no, next he's going to put all this advice on cue cards and try really hard to respond the correct way with this one particular woman. And do the techniquey thing or how to "play" it.
It may be just as easy as saying hi and not even trying to say much of anything. Or just stupid friendly things, like "how's that apple sauce today?". I'm sure you talk to people all the time, she may just be a regular person too, you know? But just hi every once and a while, since you see her there often, would probably break the ice enough and calm your "admiration from a far" thing that is getting in your way.
Once you say hi, it's usually easy to tell if you two will hit it off.  |