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Old 04-24-2007, 09:02 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by eternomi View Post
By the way, all three of these are happening simultaneously! This is not a step-by-step, linear process where you progress from one to the other. You are operating at all of them whether you are aware of it or not. It is all superimposed. Examining yourself with respect to each level separately is useful though.
You have not read "The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People" by Stphen R. Covey have you...??? (see here)

Those stages are not superimposed... and you cannot have access to the next plateau until you have finished the preceding one...

How could an infant (being dependent) be independent...??? and how could a teenager (being barely independent) be totally interdependent...???

I will agree with you though that we can regress in behavior... an interdependent person could be quite dependent if he or she was bedridden... or in such similar case...

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