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Originally Posted by elucidate  Again with the minimizing. So in other words, you took his side and made me out to be the one who had the problem instead of really seeing that what he said was totally innapropriate and I had every right to call him on it.  |
I'm not taking anybody's side. If he were here, I'd be telling him that leaving the forums over this also seems like an overreaction. But alas, he is not here. He is gone. Forever.
blacko on his backo. *pours a little whiskey out*
The thing I don't think you're realizing is, the way either of you reacted isn't wrong. But is it working for either of you? blacko's bailed (how's that working blacko? lol), and now you're bailing (for a couple of days or whatever). You both probably feel pretty crappy and hurt or whatever it is you're feeling. Maybe blacko feels ashamed that you interpretted him as being "harassing"? Maybe you feel ashamed that I said it seemed like an overreaction?
And maybe, just maybe, nicbrahms should seend me some n00ds. My inbox awaits.
