Well yeah, and yes it was about my boundaries...which he learnt as well.
The way you say it makes that clear...the way James said it made it seem like he was making it about me in a way that was possibly over-reactive, or dramatic...but I guess I superimposed that on there, without really knowing what he meant. It didn't seem like he meant it the way you say he meant it though. It felt like he was making me out to be the one with "issues"...I guess it's that word "ISSUES" that I have and issue with
I might be a little over-sensitive at the moment though...pre-menstrual and all that. Probably won't hang round the forum for a few days...it's getting a little volatile on planet Philippa