Originally Posted by elucidate
So, you think that it's MY issue that I didn't feel comfortable with the comments he was making to me, and that I felt the need to put up my boundaries?
I don't think that it indicates anything about me at all other than I have healthy boundaries and don't like having rude comments thrown at me...but you can think that.
Of course it's your issue. You just said so. "I don't think that it indicates anything about me at all other than
. . . "
That doesn't mean it's wrong or not okay for you to be uncomfortable with people overstepping certain boundaries.