Originally Posted by James81
Hmmm, you'll probably still read this thread though, right? Curiosity will prolly bite you til this thread dies.
In any case, whatever happened here, just know that people's reactions to you mean more about them than it does about you. Perhaps that'll help you see that whatever happened was coming from somebody else's issues and doesn't mean anything about you.
So, you think that it's MY issue that I didn't feel comfortable with the comments he was making to me, and that I felt the need to put up my boundaries?
I don't think that it indicates anything about me at all other than I have healthy boundaries and don't like having rude comments thrown at me...but you can think that.
It wasn't just me who mentioned it to him either...Ssandra agreed that it was totally innapropriate and rude of him, and she's a Mod...a VERY open-minded Moderator.
I don't think my issues have anything to do with someone else pushing the boundaries, as blacko did.