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Originally Posted by jamestl2  I want to ask her out and get to know her better, but I don’t know what to say, and I want to be a gentleman about, and be prepared for all possible responses. For example, she says:
No, I don’t know you well enough
No, I already have a boyfriend
I’ll think about it
Sure, where would you like to go
Etc.
I wouldn’t know how to respond, so I need suggestions of what to say. Also wondering how you guys would feel and respond if a total stranger just walked up to you. Should I be expecting rejection in this situation? I could greatly appreciate any advice for Alright, here’s my situation: I have never so much had a date or talked to many girls before, much less a girlfriend, so I have never done anything like this before. I’ve seen this woman who used to ride my bus (I’ve recently moved), and I’ve found her attractive.
We both attend the same college, and I have seen her sitting in the Union recently, and I’m willing to bet she doesn’t even know me, I don’t even know her name. my situation.
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!. Take a DEEP breath. Keep doing so...
2. With authority ask her, "Who are YOU?"
3. Lead her to the coffee shop and proceed to know her better or give her your number if pressed for time.
Know what you want and see if she fits your qualifications, e.g. cute, single, giggly girly girl, etc.... Works 10 out 10 times!