Originally Posted by James81
And then you can know that the feeling of being swooned is something you create for yourself.
Which might offer you a new perspective on looking for guys. You dont' want him to swoon you, you just want him to inspire you to swoon yourself.
Is the guy you're with good at doing that? If not, then perhaps there are other options to explore.
Thank you for that. You know I've never ever seen it that way. What an eye opener. I think the guy I was talking about doesn't really inspire swooning but what a different way of thinking about it. I'm grinning like mad (not like a mad hyena, mind you!) thinking about how I've totally missed this but now I know. That I can make myself feel the thing I've always thought of as so elusive. Man, you're pretty darn good at this.