Originally Posted by James81
So, what kind of guy would make you feel excited?
See, that's the hard part. All the guys I've been attracted to and had relationships or ONS or anything with have been just regular guys. Nice guys (as in genuinely nice, not the doormat passive aggressive nice guys), dependable, funny etc. Lookswise, I like taller, scruffier guys, but then I spent two years with a guy who was nearly my height and quite preppy (although I did get him to grow a beard...
), but basically I like guys who are relaxed and are pretty much guys guys. This guy is all that, too (ok, he could be a little bit scruffier), but still I feel nothing.
So I don't really know except I know how to answer your question except when I meet a guy who makes me feel that I just do. And that's the hardest thing. I can be going out and meeting all these great guys and not feel anything for them and then someone who is seemingly not that much different will just make me swoon. Weird, huh?