 What if you never find someone?
I was just talking to a friend of mine and complaining how hard it is to meet someone compatible (I know I know, if I'm saying such things I'm creating them but that's really not the issue here.. or at least I don't think it is) and they said:
"So what if you don't? What would that mean?"
And that really left me puzzled. What would it mean? If I knew now for certain that I will never meet someone who I want to committ to or even anyone I'd be attracted to ever again. How would that feel?
As it is a pretty fresh thought, I'm still not sure how I'd feel. But the insight is still there: if I'm stuck in a mindframe where not having someone means something very negative and to be fully happy I would need to meet someone... Does that mean I'm not fully accepting the way things are. Because I am single now and if I don't accept this situation (ie. be ok to continue like this) then I'm only creating resistance?
Gah, I'm confused already. However, I'd love to hear from you: what would you feel, how would you deal with the knowledge you'll never be with anyone again? Or is it even a question worth thinking about?
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