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theuprising · 07-21-2010, 04:30 AM

A lot of the seduction community is going about it the wrong way. A lot of the work is internal, just confidence building. The rest is just going out and learning, and having a few "tactics" to fall back on and some theory won't hurt as a crutch at first, but the eventual focus is just learning to have fun in social situations, learning to calibrate to others, and being your best self.

domjt. What is backing your opinion up? Nothing, a feeling, which is backed by a past experience, which was more or less arbitrary.

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theuprising Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 705	A lot of the seduction community is going about it the wrong way. A lot of the work is internal, just confidence building. The rest is just going out and learning, and having a few "tactics" to fall back on and some theory won't hurt as a crutch at first, but the eventual focus is just learning to have fun in social situations, learning to calibrate to others, and being your best self. domjt. What is backing your opinion up? Nothing, a feeling, which is backed by a past experience, which was more or less arbitrary. Last edited by theuprising; 07-21-2010 at 04:32 AM.